There are three book titles you will never see: "Finding Happiness by Sitting on Your Couch Waiting for It", "Finding Happiness by Pleasing Everyone", and "Finding Happiness by Pretending To Be Someone You Are Not"!
Know the difference between Pretending and Pre-tending.
Pretending about something desired may be pleasant, yet Pretending is relatively powerless.
In contrast, Pre-tending is to "Pre-take care of", to actively embrace the perception, risk, effort and work of something desired before it happens. Also, in contrast to Pretending, Pre-tending attracts into motion the infinite resources of the Universe. I like the example of Pre-tending a beautiful rose --as in watering and caring for a rose bush long before a rose is visible. Are you Pretending or Pre-tending your goals and dreams?"
Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken.
