Our elders can be difficult to take care of. Those who once took care of us, now need our care. Joy Loverde, director of Silvercare Productions and author of the second edition of The Complete Eldercare Planner, clarifies for us where to start, which questions to ask, and how to help. Joy consults for attorneys, financial planners and clergy, and she has been featured on USA Today and The Today Show. She asserts that elder care is not defined by age, but rather by a person's ability to do something – some people in their 70's may be sick, while others are running marathons.