How Meditation Can Help You Heal From Heartbreak


By: Gaia Staff  |  February 8, 2014

*“Hearts can break. Yes, hearts can break. Sometimes I think it would be better if we died when they did, but we don’t.”

Stephen King, Hearts in Atlantis

It’s said that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. And while that may be true, the pain of a broken relationship can leave you shattered, confused and unable to move forward. If you have ever suffered, or are presently suffering, from Takotsubo Cardiomyopathy (yes, there is even a scientific term for broken heart syndrome), you know exactly what I’m talking about.

It’s called heartbreak for a good reason. The physiological reaction to intense emotional pain can physically hurt and weaken your body. When you are heartbroken or painfully rejected, your body begins an emotional storm, creating a dangerous cocktail of toxic hormones such as adrenaline, cortisol and norepinephrine.

As Dr. Ronald Stram, founder of the Stram Center for Integrative Medicine in Albany, says: “There’s an immediate adrenal stress response. The adrenal gland releases adrenaline. Your cortisol levels go up. Your gut shuts down, your heart rate goes up, blood pressure rises. The emotional wounds of rejection literally hurt. From the perspective of our brain and our body, the emotional distress of heartbreak is the same as severe physical trauma!”

It’s true that time can heal our wounds, but sometimes we want to accelerate the process and get on with our lives. It’s important to heal properly because we could permanently re-wire our brain for sorrow and misery with repetitive negative thoughts (this is known as Hebb’s Law by neuropsychologists).

Meditation can be one effective way for quickly healing and moving on.

Meditation brings you into a relaxing light trance, known as the alpha state. In this pleasant state, you can visualize yourself happy, joyful and loving again. Whilst in this state, you can use mental rehearsal to trick your brain. While you are in the alpha state, your frontal lobe does not recognize the difference between fantasy and reality, which allows you to reverse the physiological effects of your painful heartbreak. Additionally, whilst in the alpha state, your normally locked subconscious mind opens, allowing you to reprogram it by intentionally replacing repetitive negative thoughts with healing and loving ones.

Meditation combined with visualization (mental rehearsal) can help you to rid yourself of toxic emotions, and reopen the possibility for love and joy once again.

Visualization for Healing After Heartbreak

With your eyes closed in a light trance, visualize yourself healed and happy. Picture negative emotions leaving your body and drifting away in a cloud. Visualize yourself embracing and thanking your ex-partner for the lessons learned together. Release your former partner and wish them well. Picture your heart opening and creating space to allow love back into your life again. Feel yourself comforted by the infinite universal love and nurturing that is always around you.

This simple visualization will help you to move through the grieving process more quickly so that you can begin healing; opening your heart to love again.

Additionally, you can enhance and accelerate your healing by taking good care of yourself by committing to your yoga practice, eating a healthy sugar-free diet and surrounding yourself with friends and loved ones.


 

Dr. Michelle Nielsen

Dr. Michelle loves watching people become happier, healthier and more connected through meditation. Her Meditation Spa APP and Meditation E-Courses marry modern technology with ancient wisdom to make meditation easy and accessible across the globe. 
As a wellness expert, international speaker, and published author, Michelle specializes in “Spiritual Makeovers”. After 2 decades in private practice helping people to heal their physical bodies, she realized that most patients were in great need of a soul surgeon. Therefore, she turned her attention towards healing the spirit and began a 15-year love affair with meditation and other spiritual practices. 
Thanks to her best-selling books and sold-out conferences, Dr. Nielsen travels the world teaching people how to create outrageous goals and birth them into reality, by aligning and better connecting body, mind and spirit. 
She also shares her powerful message in a diversity of ways such as in leading Corporate Workshops, creating guided meditations, writing for several magazines (including The Huffington Post & Cosmopolitan) and blogging for several popular websites. 
Michelle grew up in a small town in Canada and took her first international trip to the Outback in Australia at the age of 13, which turned her into a travel addict. She has lived and worked in over 10 countries, and is presently settled in beautiful Barcelona. She balances her professional life with being a wife and having the privilege of raising two delightful children, Tahlia and Matisse. The family enjoy an active wellness lifestyle, which includes snowboarding, rollerblading and many foreign adventures.
For more information about Michelle and her work, you may visit:
Website: www.MasterManifestors.com
Facebook: Master Manifestors 
Free Meditation E-Course
iTUNES: Meditation Spa App
Twitter: @DrMKNielsen
YouTube: Guided Meditations by Dr. Michelle Nielsen
In Spanish:
Website: www.maestrosdelavida.com
Facebook: Meastros De La Vida
YouTube: Maestros Manifestadores


 

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