Parallel Lives in Comas and NDEs: Is This Proof of The Afterlife?

The figure of a woman drifting into a tunnel of light.

Have you ever awoken from a dream so seemingly real that you regret waking up, or maybe even question reality? One of those reveries that stays with you the rest of the day or for weeks to come? A dream that leaves you in a state of ineffable nostalgia?

But what if that dream was so realistic it put you into a state of depression, questioning whether it was more real than this reality? Such is often the case for people who live another lifetime while in a coma when knocked unconscious, or during a near-death experience (NDE), who come back believing they’ve found proof of an afterlife or another reality beyond.

These NDEs can add a layer of confusion to the existential questions of life – why we’re here, how we got here, and what happens when we die – or in some cases, it can add a layer of clarity.

The topic has become subject matter for massively popular books, movies, and shows, though academics debate the validity of such experiences, writing them off as anesthesia hallucinations or the product of an intense, prolonged dream. But often the subjective and convincing nature of these experiences forces disbelievers to question what they once thought was sacrosanct.

And it is within these stories that we begin to question the foundations of our own conscious reality.

Concussions and Strange Coma Stories

There is a popular story circulated on Reddit of a college student’s experience while knocked unconscious. And while it’s difficult to verify the story’s authenticity, there is a multitude of anecdotes in response from people who have experienced similar phenomena while in an unconscious state.

Often these accounts result in bizarre time distortions for the experiencer, in which years pass when in reality they were unconscious for only a few minutes. This same time dilation can happen under anesthesia, in dreams, and during intense psychedelic trips, leaving the subject confused upon resuscitation, questioning the meaning of reality and time itself.

This phenomenon is usually explained as our mind filling in the narrative of a dream with memories that seem to have been living. But this Reddit user’s experience titled, A Parallel Life / Awoken By A Lamp, recounts his experience living out a decade of another life, including the birth and upbringing of two children.

You can find the full story (here), but for an abridged version read on…

The Reddit user said that during his last semester at college, he was knocked out by a football player three times his weight. While unconscious he met a woman, was happily married, and experienced the birth of two children. Every day he walked into his children’s rooms and spent time with them before leaving for work. He had a great job, a beautiful relationship with his wife, and detailed emotional memories connecting him to this family.

But one day he noticed that a lamp in his house looked strange – it was inverted and just looked off. He spent the following days on the couch, staring at the lamp, trying to figure out why it looked the way it did. He stopped eating, drinking, and even using the bathroom. His wife grew worried and brought someone to the house to talk to him, before taking the kids to her mother’s house because she was so upset. Then he realized the lamp was not real, nor was the house, the wife, or the kids either. All of a sudden, he woke up to voices, screams, and a police officer picking him up and putting him in his car to go to the hospital.

Mere minutes had passed, but in his unconscious state, an entire decade of life ensued. He spent the next several years in a state of depression, trying to cope with the loss of a family he believed to be real, and a reality remarkably less pleasant than the one he believed he had lived.

Watch this episode of Open Minds with Raymond Moody the psychologist who coined the term “Near Death Experience:”

Coma Patients’ Stories

The aforementioned story might be described in medical terms as confabulation; a disturbance of memory, defined as the creation of fabricated, distorted, or misinterpreted memories about oneself or the world, without the conscious intention to deceive.

It’s a pretty basic definition through a materialist lens, but it doesn’t necessarily explain why these experiences have such a profound impact on someone’s grasp of reality, and why the emotional fallout can be so heavy. Is it because it often stems from one’s deep-seated desires or projections of the person they want to be in life? Or could they be memories of a past life?

A similar scenario played out with an Englishman named Alpha Kabeja. Kabeja was riding his bike through London one day when he was suddenly struck by a van with enough force to knock his brain out of place in his skull. He spent three weeks in a medically induced coma, before coming back with confabulated memories.

Kabeja came to, under the impression he had been on his way home from a successful interview where he was offered a job as the assistant to the director of operations at MI5 – England’s secret service agency. He also believed his wife was expecting twins, named Sky and Nikita. He believed he kept a picture of her ultrasound in a book and took pictures of her with a pregnant belly. He also remembered that before he came out of his coma, he had been Skyping with her while she was on vacation in France.

Kabeja remembered these details as vividly as childhood memories, despite the fact they were fabricated. Doctors said his brain pieced them together based on other things going on his life, prior to the accident. For example, friends of his were expecting twins, and he wanted to start a new career in a government role. Essentially, his brain connected memories with subconscious desires or projections from his life before the accident; at least that’s the explanation doctors provided.

The Western vs. Eastern Perspective

The work of Stanislav Grof regarding non-ordinary states of consciousness and NDEs is likely the most relevant to the mystery behind these experiences. Aside from his studies with NDEs, Grof’s research involves non-ordinary states of consciousness derived from ecstatic, mystical, and psychedelic experiences, of which every culture outside of the Western world regularly and intentionally evokes.

These parallel lives are considered to be much more important and profound than mere hallucinations or dreams when viewed through the lens of a culture with a rich history in mysticism, shamanism or mythology.

Grof considers them a connection to Carl Jung’s collective unconscious; the universal psyche of which our intellects are a tiny fragment. Addressing the technologically focused, materialist worldview, Grof compares these brain states to a computer, in much the same way science sees our brain.

“If you damage a computer all you’re going to get is a jangled program, you’re not going to get another strange, comprehensive program. So, the idea that some kind of pathological process influences the brain and makes you identify with the dancing Shiva and suddenly you will understand everything there is to know about that aspect of Hinduism – it’s just not a very scientific, believable way of thinking.” — Stanislav Grof

Instead, Grof believes these non-ordinary states of consciousness are transpersonal experiences; transcending spatial boundaries, identity, and what Alan Watts called the “skin-encapsulated ego.”

He says that with non-ordinary states, time becomes distorted. One can pull the past into the present moment, bringing historical events into the now, or relive experiences from a past life. In our waking ordinary consciousness, all we can experience is the present moment based on our mundane sensory perception, but with cultures that tap into these ecstatic states, one can transcend time and space like flipping over the television channel.

Could this be the case with other lives experienced during a coma and other states of unconsciousness? For more insight, listen to Stanislav Grof’s Conscious States of Dying:



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How a Near Death Experience Enhanced My Consciousness

There’s no doubt that consciousness is rapidly expanding throughout the human race. My coffee cup is about to start talking to me. A lot of what was once considered ridiculously paranormal has now been empirically-proven and popularly embraced. In fact, the human race is clearly now a race between the realization of how expanded consciousness plays in the creation of our world and the destructive consequences that ignoring it has caused and continues to cause every day.

Consciousness as an Elemental Force

So what does that have to do with near-death experiences (NDEs)? Well, now it seems even science is converging on the ancient—but currently revolutionary—concept that consciousness itself may be an elemental force: a field, like gravity. It might be an eternal quantum field of being, necessary for the formation of material life – rather than the other way around (this idea is nicely, and controversially, proposed by Dr. Robert Lanza, of Wake Forest University). And what are NDEs but further testimonies of the continuation of consciousness beyond physical life?

Co-Creating our Reality

The rapidly growing Near-Death Movement, based on thousands of testimonies of people who have experienced consciousness beyond the limitations of our physical life, is yet another example of humanity’s spiritual potential. It’s additional evidence of our ability to co-create whatever reality we participate in, be it on the earth right here, or in that sweet hereafter.

I’d never given any of it much thought until the power and meaning of my own three NDEs arose and compelled me to write a book that put me into the hub of the hubbub. I’ve since discovered that the community of near-death experiencers ranges somewhere from five to fifteen percent of the general population globally. Now that’s a whole lot of non-ordinary reality!

Consciousness – and Individuals – Are Unique

Naturally, I have less reason than the average Joe to doubt the veracity of all that testimony; but I have found plenty of reason to ask this question: why is it that near-death experiences are all so different? If we’re all governed by eternal, invisible machinery, why do we see such a range of afterlife options, all tailored to the individual participant? Shouldn’t we all go down that identical tunnel into the light and meet Grandpa in the shimmering fields of Elysium?

Some near-death returnees report celestial extravaganzas. Some tell of organizations of elders and angels, structured in an elaborate cosmic framework. For others, it’s a hellish nightmare, complete with every infernal cliché. The reason for all these differences can be simply explained if we consider the way we’re always participating in the field of consciousness, how we are always creating our own individual realities.

The Continuum of Consciousness

My own NDEs were humble by comparison, but they all had one glorious factor in common; that I did not lose consciousness when I lost consciousness. In fact, all three times, I experienced an enhanced consciousness, seamlessly uninterrupted from this life to the next.

Skeptics suggest this sense of continuity is the result of a still-active mind – a mind not yet fully “dead.” And they’re right. Since consciousness is a field we eternally participate in, our minds never do die, they simply join a greater mind. The Hindu Vedas suggested that thousands of years ago. Dear old Dr. Jung described it too, way back in the 20th century. The mind continues working.

“Memory ensures that nature creates individual forms that are copies of the primal universal forms.”

The Hermetica

And as for the differences, well, imagine someone dying, and awakening in this world. What would they experience? The war in Syria? A recital by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir? Perhaps a high-powered business lunch, or that visit to Grandpa’s? In this elemental context, we all imagine the life we are living and live it. We all enter into the life we need to experience. This is the mystery of any incarnation, and it will continue to be the mystery from this life to the next (although NDEs do generally suggest that things are better explained over there).

The Unharnessed Power of the Mind

And what if all bets were off when it comes to our greatest potential imaginable – the unharnessed power of mind? What if our imaginations were released from the obvious limitations of this physical form? Almost anything is possible here and now––how about a world where your imagination is set free to manifest reality without material limit?

In “the next world,” as in this one, our imagination is like the clay; consciousness is like the ever-spinning potter’s wheel, and the source of power is like, well, The Source of Power. Welcome to every life (and afterlife) you will ever live – and remember, whatever life you’re living, always look for the love!

 

Article originally published Oct. 4, 2014

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