Shared Death Experiences; Supernatural Events Around the Dying
New research is shedding light on Shared Death Experiences; when the living accompany the dying on their journey into what may lie beyond.
While there has been a good deal of attention paid to the Near-Death Experience, very little is known by the general public about the Shared Death Experience (SDE).
A new research survey is the first of its kind to explore at length this fascinating phenomenon.
William Peters is the founder of the Shared Crossing Project, which is dedicated to educating people about the transformative experiences of the dying. He is also the author of the recently published book “At Heaven’s Door.”
“A Shared Death Experience occurs when somebody dies and a loved one, caregiver, bystander expresses that they feel like they shared in the transition of the dying from this human life to a life beyond and into the initial stages of the afterlife,” Peters said. “There are a variety of ways to be an SDE experiencer, you can be at bedside; about one-third of our cases are from experiencers who are just at the bedside in the room when someone is dying. Two-thirds are remote, that means they’re not even at the bedside when someone is dying, they’re doing life somewhere oftentimes they’re sleeping and they find themselves drawn into an experience, the shared death experience, in which they’re sharing a variety of phenomena.”
Peters has interviewed hundreds of people about their experiences and estimates that up to a quarter of the world’s population may have had an SDE.
The Shared Crossing Research Initiative’s recent survey of SDE accounts brings forth the range of phenomena common to the experience.
“So the most common phenomena would be this: alteration in the time-space continuum in the room. So, all of a sudden if you’re with them or even if you’re remote, you get a little dizzy, you realize your world is getting a little warped. Then you might feel a pressure, a pull upon your chest. If you’re bedside you might see a spirit, the soul-spirit leaving the body. It can look like steam, smoke, or mist coming off of the body. You’ll notice the light is changing all around you. People 51 percent of the time report seeing the dying. They report seeing the dying moving on a journey, and there is often communication with them. But they are with this loved one, presumably because that’s what it is most of the time, witnessing this transition,” Peters said.
Some of the more fascinating accounts involve multiple people experiencing an SDE around the same death.
“This experience I’m going to share is from Amelia. Her son Tom was diagnosed with cancer at 10 years old, terminal,” Peters said. “And when Tom finally died, she was with him in his bed, and she saw a beautiful lady of light appear. So she handed her beloved son of 13 years old to this woman, spirit being, who was majestic and pulled Tom with her and let Amelia know, ‘I’ve got him.’ Right when this experience was going on, Amelia’s sister Charmaine, walked into the room. Charmaine described seeing Tom rise out of his bed and head upwards into another dimension, and she felt all this loving-kindness around. So they had two different SDEs was around the death of Tom, but very validating,” Can science explain these remarkable experiences? Peters gives us his take.”
“There is some energetic frequency — we’re all energetic — and I think as somebody’s dying, their frequency is changing as they drop their human body and begin to enter into another dimension. In this frequency, you can be drawn into it, and your frequency as a person will change. I think there’s a pull from this field to the experiencer,” Peters said.
One particularly meaningful aspect of the SDE is the profound effect it has on the experiencer.
“From our research, the after-effects are highly beneficial and profound. They have a sense that their deceased loved one is alive and well in a benevolent afterlife. They have a sense that they’re going to see their deceased loved one at some point. They have an alleviation in their own anxiety and fear of death.”
Peters has developed methods for training people to have these experiences, which involve connecting with a loved one whose death is imminent and then entering into a state of love, receptivity, and acceptance. To Peters, the implications of researching and educating people on the SDE are far-reaching.
“Really what we’re hoping is that these experiences can be embraced by our health care systems, by those of us who care for people, so that these experiences can transform how it is that we die. The SDE offers us an invitation to see death through this beautiful lens of what’s possible. A best death possible for all of us includes one with a shared death experience, for ourselves and for our loved ones,” Peters said.
The Law of One: The Ra Material and the Idea That All Is One
The idea that nothing is truly separate appears, in various forms, in many spiritual traditions. In the Law of One, that vision takes a more concrete form by maintaining that everything that exists is part of a single consciousness, and life can be understood as a learning process for recognizing that unity.
This teaching comes from the Ra Material, a set of channeled texts that for decades has fueled conversations about consciousness, channeling, and the purpose of life.
In this article, we explore what the Law of One is, where it comes from, what the Ra Material teaches, and why it continues to spark so much interest today.
Table of Contents
- What Is the Law of One
- Where the Law of One Comes From: The Contact With Ra
- What the Ra Material Teaches
- Free Will as a Fundamental Law
- The Books of the Law of One
- Why the Law of One Remains Relevant Today
What Is the Law of One
To understand the Law of One, it is best to begin with its central statement, as simple to express as it is difficult to assimilate: everything that exists is, at its core, one single thing. The stars, people, animals, even the thoughts now crossing your mind would be expressions of the same infinite consciousness. The separation we perceive—you on one side, me on the other—would be real only on the surface.
From this perspective, what you call “I” is not separate from the rest: you would be a part of that broader whole, one of the many ways in which that consciousness expresses itself. The idea is not new: different spiritual traditions, from East and West, have intuited that underlying unity for centuries. What the Law of One contributes is its own language and an orderly framework for thinking about it.
Where the Law of One Comes From: The Contact With Ra
The Ra Material did not emerge as a book written by an author, but from a series of channeling sessions carried out in the United States in the early 1980s. Behind them was a small research group dedicated to studying this type of phenomenon, and it was that group that made the contact possible.
Three people formed that group. Carla Rueckert was the channel: the person through whom, in a trance state, what identified itself as Ra expressed itself. Don Elkins asked the questions, and Jim McCarty recorded every word; between 1981 and 1984, they carried out 106 sessions.
Ra did not present itself as an individual, but as a sixth-density social memory complex: something similar to a collective consciousness that would have evolved far beyond physical form.
Throughout the 106 channeling sessions, spiritual, philosophical, and cosmological questions were addressed: from reincarnation and the evolution of consciousness to the nature of time, ancient civilizations, and the existence of non-human intelligences. Over the years, that exchange gave shape to a system of ideas now known as the Law of One.
The Ra Material—with its channeled origin, its protagonists, and its teachings—is one of the examples that appear in Channeling: A Bridge to the Beyond, available on Gaia. In the episode Free Will & Off-World Allies, it is presented alongside other experiences of contact and channeling linked to intelligences from other worlds.
What the Ra Material Teaches
Beyond its central statement—that all is one—the Ra Material develops an entire vision of how reality works and how consciousness evolves. It is not possible to summarize it entirely in a few lines, but there are three ideas that return again and again and support much of the rest. Knowing them helps explain why this material sparks so much interest.
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The Densities of Consciousness
Consciousness, according to this material, would not evolve all at once, but little by little, like someone climbing a staircase step by step. Each step is a different level—what Ra calls a density—and it is not a physical place, but a broader and subtler state of consciousness than the previous one. In total, seven densities are described.
In the first would be minerals and the elements; in the second, plants and animals, which already move and grow toward a certain consciousness. The third is ours: that of human beings, marked by self-awareness and the capacity to choose. Higher up would come the fourth density, linked to love and compassion; the fifth, to wisdom; and the sixth, where love and wisdom would unite, and from which Ra said it spoke; the seventh would be the return to the single consciousness from which everything began.
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Service to Others and Service to Self
If the third density is that of choice, what exactly is being chosen? In the Ra Material, that choice does not refer to an isolated decision, but to the deep orientation from which a consciousness lives, acts, and relates to others.
That orientation can move toward service to others or toward service to self. The first path begins with cooperation, compassion, and the recognition that others are also part of oneself. The second is based on separation, control, and the pursuit of personal power above the whole.
The difference is not only in what a person does, but in the intention that supports their actions. For the Ra Material, every everyday choice reinforces an internal direction: opening to unity or shutting oneself away in separation. That is why this theme is so important within the Law of One: it defines how a consciousness uses its freedom.
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The Evolution of the Soul Through Many Lives
In the Ra Material, a single life is not enough to travel that entire path. The soul would return again and again, through many existences, to gradually learn what it needs at each stage.
Each experience, especially the difficult ones, would function as a kind of learning material: situations that your soul would use to grow and define where it wants to move forward. From this perspective, reincarnation is neither a punishment nor a reward, but a patient process of maturation. And once the lessons of a density have been learned, consciousness would be ready to make the leap to the next one.
Free Will as a Fundamental Law
If one had to choose a principle that runs through the entire Ra Material, it would be free will. In this vision, the freedom of each being is the most valuable thing that exists: each consciousness needs to choose, experience, understand, and move forward from its own process. It is not only about being able to decide, but about learning through what those decisions reveal.
From there, it becomes clear why Ra answered only the questions it was asked: imposing a truth, however certain it might be, would have been a way of overriding that freedom. The same would apply to any more advanced intelligence. According to the Ra Material, a guide can point to a possibility or open a question, but should not intervene without invitation or reveal what a consciousness is not yet ready to integrate.
Free will also connects with another idea that may seem like its opposite: destiny. In this vision, both coexist. Your soul would have chosen certain themes to explore before being born, but the way of traveling that path would still depend on you. Destiny would be the hallway; free will, the way you decide to walk through it.
The Books of the Law of One
Those 106 sessions were transcribed almost word for word and published in book form, gathered in five volumes that preserve the original question-and-answer format.
One particular feature of these texts is that their transcriptions can be found free of charge on the internet: the group that received them wanted them to be freely available to anyone.
That said, they are not books to read all at once. They are demanding texts, closer to study material than to light reading. To enter into them, it is best to do so with patience: stopping, going back, and accepting that some answers may feel abstract at first.
Why the Law of One Remains Relevant Today
Few channeled texts have left such a visible mark on contemporary spirituality. Concepts such as the “densities,” the transition from third to fourth density, or the difference between “service to others” and “service to self” were born in the Ra Material and today circulate far beyond its books.
But its influence is not explained only by its terms. The Law of One offers a broad spiritual map, capable of organizing questions that many of today’s spiritual searches still leave open: why we are here, how consciousness evolves, what meaning difficult experiences have, what role our decisions play, and how far that thing we call “I” extends.
There is also something very current in its way of approaching spiritual knowledge. The Ra Material does not demand obedience or ask you to accept everything without questioning it; it proposes taking what resonates and leaving the rest. For an era in which many people distrust closed truths, but continue searching for meaning, that freedom is an important part of its appeal.
Deep down, its relevance has to do with the question it has sustained from the beginning: what changes when you start looking at life as part of a single consciousness? From there, every bond, every choice, and every experience takes on another meaning. Rather than closing the mystery, the Law of One invites us to look at it more deeply.
