Shared Death Experiences; Supernatural Events Around the Dying
New research is shedding light on Shared Death Experiences; when the living accompany the dying on their journey into what may lie beyond.
While there has been a good deal of attention paid to the Near-Death Experience, very little is known by the general public about the Shared Death Experience (SDE).
A new research survey is the first of its kind to explore at length this fascinating phenomenon.
William Peters is the founder of the Shared Crossing Project, which is dedicated to educating people about the transformative experiences of the dying. He is also the author of the recently published book “At Heaven’s Door.”
“A Shared Death Experience occurs when somebody dies and a loved one, caregiver, bystander expresses that they feel like they shared in the transition of the dying from this human life to a life beyond and into the initial stages of the afterlife,” Peters said. “There are a variety of ways to be an SDE experiencer, you can be at bedside; about one-third of our cases are from experiencers who are just at the bedside in the room when someone is dying. Two-thirds are remote, that means they’re not even at the bedside when someone is dying, they’re doing life somewhere oftentimes they’re sleeping and they find themselves drawn into an experience, the shared death experience, in which they’re sharing a variety of phenomena.”
Peters has interviewed hundreds of people about their experiences and estimates that up to a quarter of the world’s population may have had an SDE.
The Shared Crossing Research Initiative’s recent survey of SDE accounts brings forth the range of phenomena common to the experience.
“So the most common phenomena would be this: alteration in the time-space continuum in the room. So, all of a sudden if you’re with them or even if you’re remote, you get a little dizzy, you realize your world is getting a little warped. Then you might feel a pressure, a pull upon your chest. If you’re bedside you might see a spirit, the soul-spirit leaving the body. It can look like steam, smoke, or mist coming off of the body. You’ll notice the light is changing all around you. People 51 percent of the time report seeing the dying. They report seeing the dying moving on a journey, and there is often communication with them. But they are with this loved one, presumably because that’s what it is most of the time, witnessing this transition,” Peters said.
Some of the more fascinating accounts involve multiple people experiencing an SDE around the same death.
“This experience I’m going to share is from Amelia. Her son Tom was diagnosed with cancer at 10 years old, terminal,” Peters said. “And when Tom finally died, she was with him in his bed, and she saw a beautiful lady of light appear. So she handed her beloved son of 13 years old to this woman, spirit being, who was majestic and pulled Tom with her and let Amelia know, ‘I’ve got him.’ Right when this experience was going on, Amelia’s sister Charmaine, walked into the room. Charmaine described seeing Tom rise out of his bed and head upwards into another dimension, and she felt all this loving-kindness around. So they had two different SDEs was around the death of Tom, but very validating,” Can science explain these remarkable experiences? Peters gives us his take.”
“There is some energetic frequency — we’re all energetic — and I think as somebody’s dying, their frequency is changing as they drop their human body and begin to enter into another dimension. In this frequency, you can be drawn into it, and your frequency as a person will change. I think there’s a pull from this field to the experiencer,” Peters said.
One particularly meaningful aspect of the SDE is the profound effect it has on the experiencer.
“From our research, the after-effects are highly beneficial and profound. They have a sense that their deceased loved one is alive and well in a benevolent afterlife. They have a sense that they’re going to see their deceased loved one at some point. They have an alleviation in their own anxiety and fear of death.”
Peters has developed methods for training people to have these experiences, which involve connecting with a loved one whose death is imminent and then entering into a state of love, receptivity, and acceptance. To Peters, the implications of researching and educating people on the SDE are far-reaching.
“Really what we’re hoping is that these experiences can be embraced by our health care systems, by those of us who care for people, so that these experiences can transform how it is that we die. The SDE offers us an invitation to see death through this beautiful lens of what’s possible. A best death possible for all of us includes one with a shared death experience, for ourselves and for our loved ones,” Peters said.
What Is the Third Dimension and What Is Its Spiritual Role
The third dimension is the level of existence in which form, matter, and the linear perception of time predominate. It is the plane where consciousness is experienced through the body, the senses, and duality. In this article, we explore what the spiritual 3rd dimension is from the perspective of Matías De Stefano, as explained in the series Initiation, available on Gaia.
Table of Contents
- What Is the Third Dimension?
- Differences Between the Third, Fourth, and Fifth Dimensions
- Depth and Matter in the Third Dimension
- The 3rd Dimension as the Plane of Sensory Reality
- Is Reality Real? The Illusion in the Third Dimension
- Spiritual Third Dimension: The Soul Incarnated in the Physical
- Why We Shouldn’t Escape the 3D
- The 3rd Dimension as the Foundation of the Higher Dimensions
What Is the Third Dimension?
The third dimension is one of the nine dimensions of the universe and represents the plane where energy takes physical form. Here, figures that arise from subtler dimensions acquire volume, density, and depth. It is not just a material space, but a structure of consciousness designed to experience reality through the tangible.
This plane is characterized by the perception of height, width, and depth, which allows for interaction with the environment through the senses. Consciousness at this level identifies with the body, with the linear passage of time, and with the idea of separation. It is at this point where contrasts are experienced: pleasure and pain, success and failure, light and shadow. All learning is built upon direct experience.
In the series Initiation, available on Gaia, it is explained that the third dimension is the setting where consciousness becomes matter to recognize itself through the senses. It is a necessary stage of the evolutionary process, where the soul can explore, practice, and transform its own energy into concrete experiences.
Differences Between the Third, Fourth, and Fifth Dimensions
These three dimensions are present simultaneously, but each one offers a different way of perceiving and processing reality. Understanding their differences helps to integrate the evolutionary path with greater clarity and awareness.
- Third dimension: This is the level of existence in which form, matter, and the linear perception of time predominate. Everything here is experienced through the body, the senses, and logic.
- Fourth dimension: This is the plane of time as a flexible structure, emotions, dreams, and energy in motion. It allows us to observe the internal processes behind what happens.
- Fifth dimension: This is the plane of expanded consciousness and a global vision. At this level, the unity of all things is perceived, and the soul’s purpose is accessed without judgment.
Depth and Matter in the Third Dimension
The main feature of the third dimension is depth. Unlike previous dimensions, which only allow for lines and flat shapes, this plane adds volume, enabling figures to become objects. Thanks to this depth, the abstract takes form and becomes tangible. This is the foundation on which all our material experience is built.
Matter in this dimension is not just something physical: it is the result of an energetic structure that has been densified. Every object is made up of patterns that originate from subtler dimensions but are organized in the third to form what we consider “real.” That is why, although objects appear solid, at their core they are fields of information vibrating at a specific frequency.
Understanding matter from this perspective allows us to see it not as something static, but as something in constant transformation. Nothing is completely solid or separate: everything is sustained by invisible relationships and by the energy that constitutes it. The third dimension is the point where those relationships become visible so we can explore them through the body and the senses.
The 3rd Dimension as the Plane of Sensory Reality
The third dimension is the only plane in which consciousness can be experienced through the five senses. Here, everything that is seen, touched, heard, smelled, or tasted acts as a path to knowing the world and oneself. This sensory interaction turns every experience into a learning opportunity. Consciousness immerses itself in matter to discover who it is through what it perceives.
This plane also allows the passage of time to be registered in a linear way, generating a sequence of moments: past, present, and future. That structure is essential for experience to have a narrative development, with causes, effects, and a sense of continuity. Thanks to this, we can build memories, make plans, and evolve within a logical framework. Without this sequence, organizing learning would be difficult.
Living in the third dimension does not mean being disconnected from the spiritual. On the contrary, this plane allows higher consciousness to be integrated through concrete actions. Every gesture, every relationship, and every decision offers the opportunity to align what we think, feel, and do. In this way, the physical doesn’t become a limitation, but a means to expand consciousness.
Is Reality Real? The Illusion in the Third Dimension
Although in the third dimension everything seems solid and separate, what we call “reality” is, in essence, a perception. What we touch, see, or feel is mediated by the senses and by the mind’s interpretation. That’s why what one person considers real can be completely different for another. Reality is not absolute—it is subjective and depends on the consciousness that observes it.
From a deeper perspective, matter is nothing more than energy organized into visible forms. What seems fixed is actually a vibration in constant motion. Even the most solid objects are made of expanding atoms, voids, and force fields. What we perceive as a “thing” is a mental construct based on stimuli and prior memories.
This understanding leads us to see the third dimension as a game of perception. It’s not a lie, but an illusion created so that consciousness can recognize itself in different scenarios. Understanding this doesn’t mean denying the physical—it means living it with greater awareness, knowing that what we experience is only one part of a much broader reality.
Spiritual Third Dimension: The Soul Incarnated in the Physical
The third dimension is not a realm foreign to the soul. On the contrary, it is the space where the soul projects itself in order to experience through the body and matter. To incarnate does not mean to “fall” into the physical, but to adopt a temporary form that allows one to feel, choose, create, and transform. From this perspective, living in this plane is an opportunity to explore consciousness from its limits.
When the soul incarnates in the third dimension, it faces the illusion of separation. This experience is necessary to develop identity, will, and a sense of self. It is through contrast that the possibility arises to recognize love, empathy, truth, or coherence. Each experience becomes a reflection that helps the soul remember who it truly is.
Embracing physical life as part of the spiritual path completely transforms how we inhabit this plane. Every sensation, every relationship, every obstacle has a purpose within the evolutionary process. The soul is not trapped in a body—it is using that body as a tool to expand, learn, and manifest its potential in a concrete plane.
Why We Shouldn’t Escape the 3D
There’s a common misconception that one must “escape” the third dimension to evolve spiritually. But this view stems from a rejection of the physical and the human experience, as if they were a mistake or a burden. In truth, this plane is not a punishment or a lower stage, but an essential part of consciousness’s journey. True growth happens by integrating it—not by avoiding it.
The third dimension brings challenges, but it also offers unique tools: the body, time, emotions, direct action. This is where everything learned in subtler levels is put into practice. If this plane is not fully lived, it becomes impossible to sustain the frequency of higher dimensions. Skipping stages only creates imbalance and confusion on the inner path.
To accept and inhabit this plane with presence does not mean resignation—it means embracing its purpose. The soul chose this dimension to evolve, and to escape it is to deny itself a vital part of the process. Only someone who has fully lived in the physical can integrate higher consciousness with stability, clarity, and coherence.
The 3rd Dimension as the Foundation of the Higher Dimensions
Far from being a separate dimension, the third is the base upon which the others are built. Every spiritual experience requires an anchor point in physical reality. Ideas, emotions, and intentions cannot expand unless they find a structure to support them. In this plane, that structure is the body, the environment, and everyday action.
Higher dimensions don’t float in some “beyond”; they are constructed from here. Every clear thought, every balanced emotion, and every coherent action creates the conditions to access more elevated states. There is no ascension without roots. The third dimension gives us those roots—the stability necessary to grow without losing center.
That’s why the more conscious life is in this plane, the more possibilities there are to open doors to other levels of reality. The depth developed through physical experience allows for expanded perception without disconnection. Instead of being an obstacle, the third dimension is the essential support for the soul’s evolution through all the other dimensions.
