How to Manifest a Sacred Relationship

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How to Manifest a Sacred Relationship

By: Marcus and Sheila Gillette  |  July 7th, 2018

The following interview was facilitated by Marcus Gillette and channeled by Sheila Gillette. Sheila acts as a medium for the THEO group, 12 archangelic beings, speaking in one voice, here to be mentors and teachers to humanity. Speaking directly through Sheila, THEO is here to guide humanity during this unprecedented shift to a higher state of consciousness.


Marcus: Thank you, THEO. It’s great to have you with us today. What does sacred relationship mean to you?

THEO: It is that fulfillment of sacredness within – that recognition of the divinity that you are, the beauty, the uniqueness of your individuality that which is the light of your soul. It is that sacred aspect of your being… that soul that is connected to God… the God-self.

M: Share with us the importance of the relationship unto the self?

T: As one recognizes that divinity, that uniqueness of the being, then that is what is radiated out into the world from a peaceful place (not an angst, not that projection of fears and angers) that which is the resonance of the wholeness within; meaning, that there has been a satisfaction on all aspects of one’s soul to allow unconditional loving presence.

M: Let’s go a little deeper on manifesting a romantic relationship.

T: Romantic relationships can be attracted from very many ways, and most often there is in romance the attraction first that is a lustful one or an energetic connectivity that allows you to recognize one. There is a resonance. It is much like your auric field combining another. There is a vibration that then sparks a lustfulness that leads to romance, but also that which is romantic has to do with your interactions and your sensitivities to another and that awareness with them and with yourself.

You think alike, and you are alike in many ways, for like attracts like. So, if you are in a relationship that you are viewing something that you feel inappropriate, what inside of you is being mirrored to you? There are many facets to romance; but, first off, it is that magnetism, that hormone-pheromone expression and experience, and then underneath that is the recognition of the soulful connectivity.

M: Please speak to the possibilities now present for relationships in this 5th Dimensional energy to have telepathic and multidimensional experiences together?

T: When allows that connectivity to another, you engage on an energetic level that can be unspoken yet heard; experiencing openness (no fear) to allow a trust so that you combine your energies and witness that which is known to each of you together.  It is telepathic; it is also extrasensory; it is clairvoyant, at times; it is clairsentience for those who are feelers.  There are many ways to engage in multidimensional expression in relationship together, by intention, as well as spontaneously.

M: So, in addition to intention, what else do we need to know to manifest these experiences?

T: Be open. It is very simplistic. It is easy to speak of in words but that openness (the reduction of one’s fears) is where the key lies and that is an integrative process. And asking the self the questions of truth on the inner:  Where does the fear come from? Where is the resistance?  Who is resisting?   Integrate it.

M: Let’s talk about sacred sexuality. Share with us your perspective on how we can take our sexual relationships to another level.

T: It is to understand that sexuality and the orgasmic part of sexual encounters is sacred for it is that creation that is God.  It is that connectivity to God.  So, frivolousness in this expression of self is doing oneself disservice because it is a connectivity to souls to that God you are, the Creator that you are.  So, in tantric and sacred sexuality, there is an honoring of that and the individual that you are with, and it is not the act, in and of itself, but it is the connectivity that is important from the heart, and the true expression of the self, the ability for vulnerability, allows that connection to each other.

M: Please speak more to the “ability for vulnerability” within the sacred sexuality that we are discussing.

T: One can speak their truth. Speak to another with trust. That is what you are trying to arrive at is trust within and trust without. And vulnerability allows you to bring out your authentic self (who you truly are): even speaking to what your fears may be, your likes and dislikes; the touch, even of the fingertips or the hands, can hold the energy that can be transmitted back and forth to each other while gazing upon the eyes which are the window of the soul.

M: Take us a little deeper on the topic of vulnerability.

T: Vulnerability is sharing who you truly are: sharing your thoughts, asking for what you desire, speaking the truth of yourself. For example, when you have a conversation with one that you love, not relinquishing your power for acceptable sake, to say, “Oh, yes, I would enjoy doing that,” whatever that may be, but in truth you would not for fear of abandonment you go along with whatever it is, and that is a martyring role.

So, your expectation is unmet and theirs is fully met because you have acquiesced your power and empowered them with your energy.  There should be an equal exchange of energy, and when one is vulnerable and speaking their truth, that is all we are speaking about and it needs not be harsh, but if one says, “I would like to do this, would you like to do it?”

You could say, “No, I would like to do this or that,” and you can compromise with each other and if something is more important to one than the other, you can say, “yes, I will do that because obviously it is more important to you than what I want and I am willing to participate with you in your satisfaction.”  That is truth.  And the other can feel loved by the person saying “yes, it is important to you so I will participate,” and each will be satisfied and expectations will be met.


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M: Help us understand the truth about soul mates and twin flames.

T: Soul mates are not always romantic.  Soul mates are soul family on the same frequency and of soul age.  And so many teachers in our lives could be soul mates, even those that are most difficult, because soul mates have an agreement to support each other’s growth and you are on the same frequency.   Twin flame is that which is of the same vibration, the masculine and feminine vibration of the soul that is eternal.  Not always are twin flames incarnate together in every incarnation; however, they are fully together always, and if incarnated will meet, for that is a given when incarnated.

M: I think that can be a little confusing, so are you saying that we are one-half of a soul, one-half the male and the female of a single soul, or are we, in fact, an individual soul that has a partner?

T: An individual soul who has a partner on the same frequency that is exact, both having the attributes of the masculine and feminine.  And understand that when you are not embodied there is not age-gender specific.

M: Will twin flames always find each other when they are incarnate together?

T: Yes.

M: It is magnetic, isn’t it?

T: It is.

M: There are a lot of people experiencing some disconnection in relationships, people with spouses or partners that are not on the same spiritual path.

T: It is important to recognize why you are attracted to one. Oftentimes there is a fragmented aspect that is attracted to the fragmentation of another, the woundedness in another, with an expectation that if one cares for the woundedness of another, they will care for you and make you whole. That does not work for it is the responsibility of each being to care for the self, to allow for that soul integrational process that allows for the recognition of wholeness and unconditional loving self. Then that is projected out and one attracts to oneself a being that is willing to do their emotional work, to identify those expectations not met and give them unto the self, and then with the ability to share with another from that place of wholeness or holiness.

M: When people are in unfulfilling relationships, how can they have a sacred separation?

T: It is important not to go into collusion or blame in trying to find a circumstance or something to be angry at to feel better about the separation, but rather to be in a place of recognizing that there is a completion with the relationships; they are good people that have learned together and then have come apart when that learning is complete. So, it is that more mature resonance with self that allows one to speak clearly the truth. The truth may not be liked but it will always be accepted because it is a vibration that is known clearly. So, when one speaks the truth – not conjuring up all blame of perceived harm or perceived difficulties but to be in the truth, then there is that completion, and it is important to honor each other in that learning that has been given in that time. This is difficult to do for most beings for when they are saddened, or do not want a departure, or they feel that they must leave, conjure up anger and judgment to make the case on the inner that it is alright to leave, so it is to recognize first off – one needs not create an anger-emotional circumstance to leave relationships.

M: What if we aren’t feeling certain about moving forward in a relationship?

T: First off, if there is a fear, or if there are concerns, pay attention to it and go inside and bare it out.  Bring out what it is that is prompting that feeling within, for your feelings are real things to you, and if not satisfied and understood and recognized, it will not be satisfied.  Pay attention to what you are experiencing and then the knowingness will be underneath the “I don’t know”, for you truly know in the depth of your being what those things are that are off putting to you.

M: This brings up a question about disharmonious relationships in the workplace. Let’s talk a little bit about that.

T: There has been much talk about dysfunctionality in families.  That is no different in the workplace for beings do not put their souls in the closet and go off to work and then come home and do their soul work.   It is all the same.  So, there is as much dysfunctionality in the workplace as there are in the individuals, and within that leadership.  Beings project that out and so when one stands forth in one’s truth they do not be involved.  Step out of the collusion and be in your truth.  If there is one that is particularly aggressive, one can choose to participate in the usual ways of interaction.  It can be brief interactions and very to the point but not to engage in the gossip.

M: Final thoughts?

T: Sacred relationships are anointed and ordained and blessed.  Seeing the best in each other is only a reflection of the best in you.

About the Author:

Sheila Gillette is a world renowned spiritual medium and channel for the twelve archangels collectively known as THEO. She is the co-author of, The Soul Truth: A Guide to Inner Peace and author of, The Fifth Dimension: Channels to a New Reality. She and her husband Marcus are the co-hosts of the popular interactive internet TV show “AskTHEO Live”, and she and THEO are prominently mentioned in the Abraham-Hicks publications as the mentors for Esther Hicks to begin channeling Abraham.

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Transformation Through the Alchemy of Love

Things are heating up here on planet Earth, thanks to global warming, our shift into the photon belt of electromagnetic-charged light particles and the rising kundalini of Mother Earth. As a result, many people feel as if they’re cracking like mustard seeds in a pan under the intense pressure of our modern-day lives as we experience the transition phase of what’s been termed, ‘The Great Rebirth’.

How you can make the shift as graceful as possible? Through the power of love.

We are all a part of a significant event in the course of our shared human history. I am referring to the collective shift in consciousness currently taking place on our planet. Some are projecting their fear that the end of the world is nigh; however, I feel the band, REM summed it up beautifully with their song, “It’s the end of the world, as we know it.”

Regardless of our perspective on it, it’s happening. We are collectively facing the crossroads of change. We can respond by denying it, fighting it, or allowing and embracing it; the choice is ours in accordance with the universal law of free will.

Embracing the Inevitable Breakdown to Breakthrough

In the birthing process of a physical child or any creative endeavor, it is inevitable that we must pass through the transition phase. This phase is when we feel like giving up and may even contemplate death as an option in our desperate attempt to stop the intensity of our human suffering. This anxiety signals we are at the crossroads of life and death, which will catalyze a shift in our perspective and awareness. This is when we feel like we’ve reached our lowest point: energetically, emotionally, mentally and physically. It is when we are so worn out from our struggle, that we have no choice but to surrender to the process which marks our egos’ psychological deaths, allowing the new identity and new set of circumstances to emerge.

Egos: ‘The Bigger They Are, the Harder They Fall’

In mysticism, this process is referred to as “the dark night of the soul”. It may last one night or many months, depending on how big our ego is – that is, our will and our sense of personal identity. For example, we may stubbornly stay the course by imposing our old way of doing things while our reality continues to fall apart. We may even lose everything we hold dear until we wake up to the fact it is we who need to change.

During this global transition phase, many people are experiencing unbearable but avoidable stress as they persist with old-paradigm thinking and modes of operating, contrary to the energy of the new paradigm, which doesn’t support our old way of thinking and being.

Understanding the New Paradigm

For our lives to flow more gracefully we need to understand natural cycles and their effect on us. What people refer to as the ‘old paradigm’ is the Piscean Age, a two-thousand-year period where we explored the themes and lessons of this astrological sign. Symbolized by two fish swimming in opposite directions, we sought to define ourselves by identifying what we were not. This was a time of duality, where we identified our experiences as good or bad, we saw ourselves physically as man or woman, we perceived Spirit and matter as separate and adopted a concept of Heaven and Earth as being distant.

The new paradigm is known as the Age of Aquarius, a two-thousand-year period which began in 2012, but whose influence could be felt from the 1960s when we witnessed global social change calling for equality, innovation and free thinking. Aquarius asks us to celebrate diversity while acknowledging the oneness of humanity and all living beings.

Those who are still operating in the Piscean way of thinking often ridicule those who have made the shift into the ‘new age’. Why? Our ego is governed by our rational mind and our rational mind fears the unknown and anything it can’t control, so it reacts by minimizing the importance of that which it doesn’t understand. One cannot understand the new paradigm if one has not personally undergone an inner shift of consciousness. That shift is the transition from one’s ego being the dominant operating system, to their soul taking that role.

How Do We Ensure Our Soul is in Our Driver’s Seat?

We may have a breakthrough at a workshop or retreat and then return home to our old life and slip back into our old patterns of thought and behavior, where our rational mind is more dominant than the intuition of our soul. We recognize this return to egocentric behavior according to our degree of stress, as escalating stress levels result when we seek to control the inevitable chaos of life.

The only way to ensure we don’t get caught up in such ‘monkey mind’ madness is to regularly anchor our intent of bowing to our inner knowing, through a practice which aligns our mind, body and soul, such as yoga, qigong or tai chi. Such practices form a foundation of self-love by nurturing our needs mentally, emotionally, energetically and physically. By generating self-love on a daily basis, we have the energy to respond with compassion and human kindness to those in our waking world. Whereas when we are running on empty, denying our own needs, we react to others from a place of fear or need.

Global Social Change Through the Alchemy of Love

The word “crisis” means both danger and opportunity, illustrating we each have the power to transform our global crises through the understanding that we are all interconnected fractals of Gaia. So the more we embody love through self-honoring choices, acts of brotherly or sisterly kindness, and devotional service to the greater good, the more powerful the role we each play as vessels to anchor the consciousness of Heaven on Earth. Whereas the more we collectively polarize in fear and separation, the more we contribute to the collective thought-form of suffering. Given our waking world is a reflection of our internal state, we can each consciously choose to support a conscious, ecstatic birth rather than an unconscious, traumatic birth.

The ancients understood their impact on the holographic nature of the universe.

This is why they honored the alchemy contained within their bodies and would gather within sacred geometric structures during astrological vortices on ley line intersections, to consciously align the Earth with the heavens. This is why they erected temples and stone circles on these sites—to generate energy and raise the collective consciousness. It’s why our stellar neighbors have placed crop circle sigals, using the power of sacred symbols to clear blocks in the intertwining global meridians of the sacred feminine and masculine which carry our consciousness around the Earth. This is why many are being called to perform ceremonies to clear blocks and raise power, using the power of love for Gaia and our global family to midwife our global transition in this time of crises.

Ultimately, we all have the opportunity to reduce both our own stress levels and the suffering of others, by harnessing the power of love in our daily lives.

Practical Ways to Navigate the Shift with Loving Grace

  • Ensure vigilant self-care by eating nutritious food, as well as getting adequate rest and sleep
  • Keep your energy levels high with music which uplifts your feelings and state of mind
  • Read books and articles which inspire you with mind-expanding concepts
  • Surround yourself with people who honor you with kindness and compassion
  • Do anything creative which enthuses you, as this further kindles your inner divine spark
  • Devote time to being of service to the greater good, be it within your community or on a global scale
  • Do regular practices to align and clear the energy centers of the body, known as chakras so your intuition is crystal clear, enabling you to be a bridge between Heaven and Earth
  • Honor both your physical and spiritual needs in equal measure to avoid polarization, which creates tension and conflict internally and externally
  • Gather in circles to perform sacred ceremonies and sharing circles to practice being transparent and collectively create positive vortices of transformation (After all, stars form by spiraling together!)

Finally, if you are experiencing adversity and challenge, start by blessing the situation you are dealing with; this will raise your frequency and enable you to intuit the most ingenious solution to your current dilemma. Affirm the benevolent Universe is orchestrating the birth of your greater self through every interaction and ask to be shown the lesson so you can maintain both an open heart and your trust in the unfolding of the divine plan.

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