4 Ways to Move Through Your Emotions: LOVEolution Project
I’ve written extensively about how humans like to repress their emotions and the side effects that result. Now, let’s look at how we can experience all of what our emotions have to offer so that we can move through any roadblocks to our personal and transformational growth.
Emotions are energy in motion.
Panache Desai
Here are four steps for how to experience emotional health.
- Become Aware
We have repressed our feelings for so long, it can be intensely uncomfortable when we become aware of our emotions, especially sadness. The word depression has become our “go to” because we do not know how to transform our sadness into an authentic state of happiness; this is a lost opportunity for growth. Instead, we quickly turn to pharmaceutical intervention, which makes us numb. Pharmaceutical companies will continue to prey on us while we play right into their hands of marketing illness. Feeling sad? Take this pill.
A dear friend of mine who experienced some very challenging events in life did decide to turn to medicine, and she said for two years she didn’t cry.
I very much believe that medicine can bridge the gap to health, but YOU need to cross the bridge.
- Sit with your emotions
When you have lost your way, the only thing left is to slow down and just observe with a desire to understand. We need to remember what emotions are—a wave of energy that offers an opportunity to evolve in our human experience. It is that simple. Don’t judge, just be the observer and look for ways to progress.
Additionally, you may want to become aware of the behaviors you may engage in to avoid your emotions. Many try numbing with an addiction (food, drugs, sex), and this only results in a moment of instant gratification instead of long-term emotional health. Numbing can quickly take control, causing you to lash out and misdirect frustration, which really comes from the lack of understanding your emotions. These are just a few of the many behaviors that stem from emotional repression.
- Move Emotions Up and Out
Many, including myself, have taken the route of traditional talk therapy. For years it was even considered cool to go lay down on a therapist’s couch. However, there we sat talking about the same things in life, over and over. At some point, in order to evolve, we must move how we feel forward; this means letting go of how this will look in the future or how it looked in the past.
Feelings are a gift to help you transform, and there are many tools to move emotions through you. However, you have to find what works best for you. Here are a few places to start:
Forgiveness of self
Forgiveness does not have to be a two-way street; just let go of your story and recognize we are all here to make mistakes in this human experience.
The physical practice of yoga and breath
Yoga asanas allow you to focus on the releasing of emotions. The practice of yoga is intended to help you surface your emotions in a gentler way. This is why when we attend a hip opener class we may feel emotional afterward, as we store emotions in our physical body. Pranayama is personally my favorite way as I intentionally set a breath cycle to visually release things that are no longer serving me.
Crying
Crying is one of our greatest emotional releases. Yes, our society has turned this into a form of weakness by telling us big boys and girls don’t cry. We need to work together to change this perception. We ALL need to cry! Next time, instead of telling your friend not to cry give them a hug and let them cry it out. Give your friend the space to be vulnerable and release. You do not have to be the “fixer.”
- Let Life Teach You
Many of the challenges in our life come as a gift to teach us a lesson. With this gift we need to accept responsibility for our own healing, as only YOU can be your FIXER. Start with the relationships in your life, as this is usually a great source of emotion for us all.
Just as with our emotions, we need to evolve in our relationships, too. This means we sometimes get angry or frustrated within the relationship. Instead of reaction and blame, sit down (face to face) and have a gentle conversation to understand how you got there and how to move forward. Maybe it is time to let go, but finding and appreciating the love with compassion will pave a beautiful road with the gift of a lesson.
Understanding emotional wellness will be the greatest gift we can give our children and ourselves.
Now more than ever, we need to embrace our emotional wellness as we continue to live in a world that is moving at epic speeds.
The increasing level of technology that continues to remove emotion and connection from our conversations and experiences is ‒ and will continue ‒ to negatively impact us if we don’t start to pay attention.
The good news is that many of us are sensing that we need to find the courage to break this cycle. This will only allow for us to grow and re-align with our whole, authentic being.
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Women's Circles: A Complete Guide to Getting Started
Women’s circles provide a safe environment where women can connect deeply, share their stories and support each other. These spaces facilitate personal and spiritual growth through connection and sharing of experiences. In this article we explore what women’s circles are, their purpose and how they can transform lives.
Table of Contents
- What Are Women's Circles and How Do They Work?
- The Purpose of Women's Circles
- How Women's Circles Are Structured
- Common Topics Shared in Women's Circles
- Who Can Facilitate a Women's Circle?
- The Origin and History of Women's Circles
What Are Women’s Circles and How Do They Work?
A women’s circle is a gathering of women who congregate to support each other, share experiences and work together on their personal and spiritual growth. These circles can take various shapes and sizes, but all share the common goal of providing a safe and supportive space where women can express themselves freely and without judgment.
These gatherings often include practices that foster connection and healing, such as guided meditations, symbolic rituals and creative activities. Women’s circles are based on trust and confidentiality, creating an environment where each participant feels heard and valued.
The Purpose of Women’s Circles
The primary purpose of a women’s circle is to provide a space where women can explore and develop their personal and collective power. These circles foster deep connection and emotional support, helping participants feel more connected to themselves and to each other.
In addition, women’s circles seek to promote healing and empowerment. By sharing their stories and experiences, women can release repressed emotions and find comfort in the solidarity of the group. This process of sharing and listening allows participants to heal emotional wounds and strengthen their resilience.
How Women’s Circles Are Structured
Women’s circles develop through a well-defined structure that allows participants to connect and share effectively. This structure can vary, but generally includes specific stages that facilitate the flow of the meeting and ensure that all participants have the opportunity to express themselves.
- Welcome and Opening: Begin with an introduction and a brief meditation or breathing exercise to center the group. This initial moment sets a tone of calm and connection.
- Sharing in a circle: Each woman has the opportunity to speak while the others listen attentively and without interruption. This is a key moment for personal expression and mutual support.
- Core activity: A specific activity such as a ritual, a guided meditation practice, or a group dynamic can be included. These activities foster connection and personal growth.
- Closing and reflection: The circle ends with a group reflection where participants share their experiences and learning. This closing helps to integrate what was experienced during the meeting and to strengthen the sense of community.
Common Topics Shared in Women’s Circles
The topics of conversation in a women’s circle are deeply intimate and reflect the personal and collective experiences of the participants. These topics allow women to connect at deep levels, sharing and healing together their most significant stories and emotions.
- Life stories and trauma: Women share their life stories, including traumatic events that have shaped who they are today. This exchange promotes empathy and mutual understanding. Talking about these issues in a safe environment helps heal deep emotional wounds.
- Motherhood and Fertility: Experiences related to motherhood are discussed, including the challenges of fertility and loss. Women share their joys and sorrows related to motherhood. This topic creates a supportive space for those seeking or experiencing motherhood.
- Body and sexuality: Conversations revolve around body acceptance and exploration of sexuality. Participants share their experiences and challenges in these areas, promoting a positive and healthy view of sexuality. This topic helps to break taboos and encourage self-acceptance.
- Complex family relationships: Women address difficult family dynamics and how these have influenced their lives. Strategies for managing toxic relationships and finding inner peace are discussed. This topic is vital to understanding and healing the roots of many emotional conflicts.
- Violence and abuse: A safe space is created for women to talk about experiences of violence and abuse they have suffered. Sharing these stories allows them to release their pain and find support and solidarity. This topic is crucial for empowerment and the recovery of personal autonomy.
- Dreams and aspirations: Women discuss their personal and professional dreams and goals. Sharing these aspirations allows them to receive support and motivation from the group. This topic helps participants visualize and work toward a desired future.
Who Can Facilitate a Women’s Circle?
Any woman with a desire to create a safe and supportive space for other women can facilitate a women’s circle. No specific training is necessary, although leadership skills and empathy are beneficial. The facilitator must be able to maintain order, encourage participation and ensure that all voices are heard.
The facilitator should also be aware of the importance of confidentiality and trust within the circle. Creating an environment in which all participants feel comfortable sharing their stories and emotions is crucial to the success of the group. The facilitator should be a supportive figure, guiding the discussions so that everyone feels valued and respected.
The Origin and History of Women’s Circles
Women’s circles have their roots in ancient community traditions that valued the power of the female gathering for healing and shared wisdom. In many indigenous cultures, women gathered regularly to share knowledge, perform rituals and support each other in their roles within the community. These gatherings were essential to the social and spiritual well-being of the group.
Over time, these practices have evolved and adapted to modern contexts. During the feminist movement of the 1970s, women’s circles re-emerged as spaces of empowerment and resistance. Women began to meet to discuss their experiences and fight for their rights, creating a critical support network for the movement.
Today, women’s circles continue to be a vital space for connection and personal growth. They are held all over the world, in both urban and rural settings, and cover a wide range of topics and approaches. From spiritual development to emotional support, these circles offer a haven where women can explore and celebrate their collective identity and strength.
These spaces not only allow us to share stories and experiences, but also to build a supportive community. Women’s circles provide a place where understanding, empathy and healing are fostered, continually adapting to the needs and challenges of women in every era and culture.
