Mediumship Development: How to Connect with the Other Side
As a Spiritual Medium, I spend most days with one foot in reality and the other in what many would term “the other side.” I connect people with loved ones who have transitioned, their spirit guides, and their own soul to bring peace and clarity about their personal life lessons.
It is far from a conventional career, but I’d like to think that this is changing. As our religious ideals soften and we continue to tap into our inner being, we help to lift the veil between the physical and non-physical. The recent trends in yoga, meditation and new age spirituality are encouraging people to go within and tap into their own divine identity and intuition. TV shows about mediums are quickly reaching millions across the globe and causing people to ask, “Is mediumship real?”
Let’s start by defining it.
Mediumship is the ability to connect and communicate with the departed and the metaphysical realm using the energy that is felt beyond the five physical senses.
The Nature of Psychic Abilities
Perhaps it is most helpful if we discuss the nature of psychic abilities for it is within these that mediumship abilities are derived. We all have some psychic intution . It’s a survival tool. We’ve all had times in our lives when we clearly “know” something in our gut. Have you ever experienced having an immediate connection with someone when you first meet? Or have you ever just known when someone was lying to you? These unexplainable inclinations are a part of the psychic realm and the metaphysical connection; the energy between things that we don’t experience with the first five senses.
The truth is, everyone has some psychic ability but we’re just not accustomed to using it.
And in some, like with any skill, it’s more developed than with others.
Mediumship Misconceptions
I came into the world quite psychic. I wasn’t raised with any religious influence but by the time I was 4 I had gathered enough vocabulary to talk about God, the angels, why I came to earth and why I chose my parents in this life. I saw things that others weren’t seeing so as a child I learned quite quickly to cut off my intuitive sight. Fear promptly capped these abilities until later in life as an adult when I decided to open them up again, but it didn’t happen over night. I had to get over a lot of fears, doubts and misconceptions about developing mediumship abilities and what it meant to communicate with “the dead.”
People have been taught to fear the ethereal, mostly because we don’t completely understand it and partly because so many religions have taught that it was evil. By changing our perspective about “the other side” and simply considering our eternal nature, we inadvertently open ourselves up to link the bridge between heaven and earth Like anything in life, moving past fear enables us to discover new aptitudes and reach higher levels of consciousness.
As we detach from old societal paradigms, and welcome new ways of seeing our “reality,” it creates space for us to connect with the ethereal.
Because of our collective shift in consciousness, many are becoming more sensitive to receiving messages from the other side. I can’t tell you how many times a client’s suspicions of their loved ones visiting them in the physical have been confirmed. Usually if you feel like they may be visiting you, they indeed are.
I may not be able to give you the scientific expertise that you might be looking for, but I have witnessed the incredible shifts that take place within my clients by communicating with loved ones who have passed over. I have seen the light in their eyes as their beloved offers irrefutable confirmation that it’s them. We’ve had gut busting laughs over the departed’s new-found perspective and take on things from the other side.
I’ve seen incredible weights lifted from clients leading to profound change in their own lives after making peace with a family dynamic by communicating with a loved one has passed.
Even if mediumship wasn’t real, doesn’t it feel better to think that someday we’ll be reconnected to those who have passed? Doesn’t it bring comfort to think that they are at peace and relieved of their suffering? Opening yourselves up to this idea stimulates the feelings of being connected energetically and eternally, and the profound lesson that love has no walls.
We often need our own experience to really know something. So are mediumship abilities real? I encourage you to test the waters with these simple exercises. Acknowledge your ability to receive, recognize your connection to all things, and express gratitude when you do get intuitive “hits.”
Mediumship Development: How to Access the Other Side
Here are some ways to begin to open your intuition and bridge the gap between the physical and non-physical:
Meditate
Meditation is the quickest route to strengthening your intuition because it is from this place that all messages come through. You don’t have to be a yogi or guru to meditate. Simply finding quiet solitude through intentional breathing, a guided meditation or even a moving meditation like yoga or waking in nature helps to open your pathways to your intuitive communication.
Relax and Enjoy the Present
Find time to relax and enjoy the present moment. When we’re busy with our thoughts and continually responding to the physical conditions, it’s hard for us to receive information. When we can slow down the pace, when we are not chasing after things, we are more present, awake and aware. We are also more able to meet the vibration of the other side, which is based in love, peace and gentleness.
Release Sorrow
Release sorrow and the misconception, that they are “dead.” From my experience I have witnessed them being them more alive, rejuvenated and vibrant than ever before.
Our perception that they are unattainable blocks our ability to receive their messages. There are many ways they can come in to communicate with us and we can open the doorways by recognizing their eternal self and our infinite connection. We often think we have to hold sorrow in order to honor them, but this can keep us blocked from feeling them. By feeling the eternal love we share, we create more space for us to feel their presence.
Honor Signs
Honor the signs you receive. Pay attention to your dreams, they often visit us this way because we’re in a state of utter relaxation and receiving. Don’t bat these experiences away. They can even reach us through the physical. Pick a sign for you and your loved one to share, maybe a symbol or a word, and watch to see how quickly it can appear. You will be surprised of the ways they can reach you if you open up your heart and have fun with the process.
Create Connection, Find Soul
Creating this connection is easier than you think. After all, we are more soul than anything. We tend to be so focused on the physical. It just takes a little redirection in noticing the infinite ways that life is woven together, the perfect ways solutions are provided, and the seemingly coincidental ways you meet people at the right time. Have you noticed that when you look on back at life, it all makes mores sense? That there always seems to have been a reason for the events that have taken place even if you didn’t se it at the time? It doesn’t hurt to believe that things are working out for you and that somehow this beautiful tapestry of life is woven together through and with love.
If you are curious about the afterlife, there are plenty of books out there on past lives. There are confirmed studies of children remembering their previous lives and personal accounts of mediumship that are soul rocking. The studies are endless, but it has to resonate with you.
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What Is Remote Viewing and How Is It Developed?
Table of Contents
- What Is Remote Viewing?
- Stanford Research and the Origins of Remote Viewing
- Understanding the Difference Between Clairvoyance and Remote Viewing
- Remote Viewing Training: How to Practice and Actionable Techniques
- Can Everyone Develop Remote Viewing?
- Spiritual Benefits of Developing Remote Viewing
- Myths and Facts About the Art of Remote Viewing
- The Continuing Debate Around Remote Viewing
What Is Remote Viewing?
Remote viewing is one of the most advanced psychic abilities and a structured practice of extrasensory perception (ESP) that allows a remote viewer to describe or gather information about a distant target site using only the mind. Unlike traditional sensory perception, this technique seeks impressions of locations, objects, or events without relying on the five physical senses. Supporters view it as a disciplined method of accessing hidden information, while skeptics often consider it a form of psychic phenomena without scientific proof.
The concept of remote viewing has been explored in both spiritual and experimental settings, where researchers and practitioners alike have tested whether the human mind can access information beyond normal perception. Reports of successful sessions describe participants sketching landscapes, describing structures, or identifying key features of a location they have never physically visited.
The process follows a multi-stage protocol. A typical remote viewing session begins with relaxation or meditation to quiet mental distractions, followed by setting a clear intention to connect with the chosen target. During the session, the viewer records raw sensory impressions, such as shapes, textures, sounds, or temperatures, before attempting to interpret them. Patience, consistent training, and repeated sessions are considered essential for refining accuracy and building confidence in the results.
Stanford Research and the Origins of Remote Viewing
Remote viewing moved to formal study in the early 1970s when physicists Russell Targ and Harold Puthoff began experiments at the Stanford Research Institute (SRI) in California. Their work sought to determine whether the human mind could obtain information about distant places or objects without ordinary sensory input, a concept they referred to as “remote perception.”
At SRI, trained participants known as remote viewers attempted to describe hidden or distant target sites, locations, objects, or events, while shielded from all conventional cues. Sessions followed a controlled protocol in which viewers recorded mental impressions such as shapes, textures, and spatial relationships. According to reports, some results produced descriptions accurate enough to be statistically significant beyond chance, sparking interest from military and intelligence agencies.
This research eventually attracted funding from the U.S. government, including the CIA and the Department of Defense, under programs like the now-declassified Stargate Project. These initiatives explored whether remote viewing could aid intelligence gathering during the Cold War and led to decades of classified testing. While the studies generated intriguing data, critics highlighted issues with experimental controls and the often vague nature of the information obtained. Today, despite Targ’s continued advocacy and writings on the subject, mainstream science generally regards remote viewing as pseudoscience, noting that no reproducible evidence confirms it as a reliable phenomenon.
Understanding the Difference Between Clairvoyance and Remote Viewing
Clairvoyance and remote viewing are psychic abilities used to obtain information beyond the physical senses, yet their goals and methods differ in key ways. Clairvoyance is the ability to receive spontaneous or intentional visual impressions about people, places, or events outside normal sensory range. It can arise as a natural gift or be developed through training, allowing a person to perceive images, colors, symbols, or entire scenes that appear within the mind’s eye.
Remote viewing, by contrast, is a carefully structured form of remote perception designed to describe details of a distant target site without physical access. This skill follows a defined protocol to collect accurate and verifiable data. During a remote viewing session, the viewer records raw sensory impressions, such as shapes, sounds, textures, or spatial relationships, while using systematic methods to reduce conscious analysis and outside influence.
The range of information also differs. Clairvoyants may receive broad, symbolic visions or intuitive messages that require interpretation, including insights about a person’s emotions, potential future events, or abstract themes. Remote viewers, on the other hand, focus on describing specific, tangible characteristics of the target, such as geographic features, structural elements, or measurable details that can later be checked against reality.
Although both practices claim access to knowledge beyond the five senses, clairvoyance remains more subjective and open-ended, while remote viewing emphasizes repeatable steps and data that can be compared to actual outcomes. These distinctions give each practice its own set of applications and training approaches, offering different pathways for exploring extrasensory perception.
How to Remote ViewÂ
Remote viewing is presented as a disciplined way to gather information about a distant target site through focused mental perception. Rather than waiting for spontaneous visions, a remote viewer follows structured steps to capture sensory impressions and record them for later verification. Training focuses on relaxing the body, calming the mind, and developing the ability to notice subtle impressions without letting analysis interfere.
Mental Preparation and Focus
Begin by creating a quiet environment where you can relax and settle your thoughts. Deep breathing or meditation reduces mental noise and strengthens concentration. Practitioners set a clear intent to perceive details about the target while keeping thoughts neutral. This focused state supports the reception of impressions that might otherwise be missed.
The Viewing Process
During a remote viewing session, a monitor or assistant may provide a neutral cue for the hidden target. Quickly note the first impressions—colors, shapes, sounds, or temperatures—without naming the object or trying to interpret it. Recording these raw perceptions before analysis helps preserve data that can later be matched to the target. Treat each sensation as information, even if it seems random.
Development and Refinement
Consistent practice strengthens accuracy and detail in remote viewing work. After each session, compare your notes with the actual target to identify patterns and improve precision. Over time, this routine builds confidence and reliability while helping you expand from basic impressions to more complex sensory details.
Beginner Practice Exercise
Developing remote viewing requires practice and a systematic approach. Here is a simple exercise you can do to start training this skill:
- Select Targets: Ask a friend or family member to choose 5–10 varied images from magazines, such as landscapes, people, or objects.
- Prepare the Envelopes: Have your assistant place each image face down in a sealed envelope and keep the contents secret.
- Calm Your Mind: Find a quiet spot, close your eyes, and breathe deeply to reduce distractions.
- Set the Stage: Write down the date, time, and any distracting thoughts to clear your mind before you begin.
- Describe the Target: Without opening the envelope, write down the first basic impressions that arise, textures, colors, patterns, movements, without judgment or analysis.
- Draw a Sketch: Create a rough sketch of the shapes or structures you sensed. Artistic skill is not important; focus on capturing the essence of the impressions.
- Get Feedback: Open the envelope and compare your notes and sketch with the actual image. Reflect on similarities and differences to learn from the session.
This foundational exercise provides immediate feedback and helps develop the mental discipline that supports more advanced techniques. By repeating the process and reviewing your notes after every session, you begin to recognize subtle patterns, sharpen your attention to small sensory details, and train your mind to capture impressions before analysis sets in. Over time, these habits create the steady focus and self-awareness needed to attempt longer sessions, more complex target sites, and the structured protocols used by experienced remote viewers.
Can Everyone Develop Remote Viewing?
Remote viewing is a skill that most people can learn and improve with steady practice. While a few individuals may show natural sensitivity from the start, consistent training is what allows the majority of students to strengthen their abilities over time. Progress depends less on innate “psychic powers” and more on patience, focus, and regular sessions that teach the mind to notice subtle impressions.
Key factors that support development include:
- Regular practice: Short, frequent sessions help train attention and reduce mental noise.
- Strong concentration: The ability to maintain a quiet, alert mind is critical for receiving accurate impressions.
- Open mindset: Curiosity and a willingness to record even faint or unexpected impressions prevent early filtering.
- Structured methods: Following a step-by-step protocol or guided training provides consistent feedback and measurable improvement.
- Patience and perseverance: Results may start small, but skill grows as the mind learns to separate fleeting thoughts from genuine target information.
Spiritual Benefits of Developing Remote Viewing
Remote viewing is more than a method for gathering impressions about a distant target site. Practicing it over time can transform the way you experience the world and your inner self. Training as a remote viewer calls for quiet focus, disciplined attention, and regular sessions, and these habits naturally foster deeper awareness and a stronger sense of connection. Many people find that the mental discipline required for remote viewing work carries over into everyday life, creating benefits that go far beyond the sessions themselves.
Below are some of the most frequently reported spiritual and personal gains:
- Spiritual connection: Regular practice encourages a stronger bond with the universe and with your own inner life. This deeper connection can spark insight into personal purpose and the larger patterns of existence.
- Expanded awareness: Reaching for information beyond ordinary senses stretches perception and helps you recognize the interdependence of all things. Over time, many viewers describe a heightened sensitivity to subtle patterns in daily life.
- Sharper intuition: Recording and reviewing impressions during a remote viewing session strengthens subtle perception. Many practitioners notice clearer gut feelings and more confidence when making important choices.
- Relaxation and balance: The quiet, focused state required for each session naturally promotes deep relaxation. This meditative practice can reduce stress and support steady emotional balance.
- Personal growth: Working with remote viewing often reveals self-imposed limits. Meeting those challenges builds patience, resilience, and a broader perspective on the capabilities of the human mind.
Myths and Facts About the Art of Remote Viewing
Remote viewing has always carried an air of mystery, which makes it easy for rumors and misconceptions to spread. Sorting myth from reality helps anyone interested in the practice approach it with realistic expectations and a clear understanding of what this remote perception technique can and cannot do.
Remote Viewing Myths
- For psychics only: Many believe that only gifted psychics or psychic mediums can succeed as remote viewers. In truth, structured training protocols show that people without any prior extrasensory experience can learn the process.
- Dangerous to the mind: Some worry that remote viewing might cause mental harm or invite negative forces. When practiced with proper guidance, it is no more harmful than meditation or focused visualization.
- Unlimited access: A frequent claim is that a skilled viewer can observe anything, anywhere, at any time. In practice, sessions often yield partial impressions, symbolic fragments, or ambiguous details rather than unlimited surveillance.
- Guaranteed accuracy: Movies and sensational reports sometimes suggest that trained viewers always describe a target site with perfect precision. In reality, even experienced practitioners have sessions where impressions are vague, contradictory, or incorrect.
- Proof of supernatural powers: Supporters sometimes frame successful sessions as unquestionable evidence of psychic powers. Skeptics counter that hits can stem from coincidence, selective memory, or subconscious pattern recognition, so results remain open to debate.
Remote Viewing Facts
- Requires steady practice: Consistent training, patience, and honest feedback are essential. Progress comes from refining mental discipline and learning to separate subtle impressions from imagination.
- Documented research history: Programs at institutions like the Stanford Research Institute (SRI) and government projects such as Stargate show that the topic has been tested under controlled conditions, even though the scientific community remains divided on its validity.
- Not infallible: A single session may contain both accurate and inaccurate details. Statistical studies have found results better than chance in some cases, but no protocol eliminates human error or subjective interpretation.
- Often labeled a pseudoscience: Despite decades of experiments, remote viewing lacks a mechanism recognized by mainstream science. Researchers describe it as a form of extrasensory perception (ESP), but its status remains unproven and controversial.
The Continuing Debate Around Remote Viewing
Remote viewing remains a topic that straddles the line between curiosity, research, and controversy. Decades after the early experiments at SRI and the CIA’s Stargate Project, interest in the practice continues in spiritual circles, private training groups, and online communities. Supporters point to statistically significant studies and personal experiences as evidence that the human mind may have abilities beyond ordinary senses. Skeptics view those same results as chance, methodological flaws, or creative interpretation rather than proof of genuine psychic phenomena.
Whether approached as a meditative discipline, a tool for exploring consciousness, or simply a historical curiosity, remote viewing invites people to test the limits of perception for themselves. Practicing relaxation, careful observation, and structured feedback can strengthen focus and intuition even if no “psychic spy” skills emerge. By understanding the myths, research history, and training methods, readers can decide how much of this psychic phenomenon feels meaningful while maintaining a grounded perspective on what remains unverified.
